Never realized it could become so challenging to serve the complaint papers.
I was assured this could become a cooperative divorce to make everything easier and cost down, which sounds pretty suspicious
from what I experienced in the past 12 years. But I took the bait, dreaming to buy another peaceful period for the kids' sake.
No surprise things easily turn around after half a year, the tone becomes if you need an easy one you better buy your way out
Never mind, I am not in a rush here. Divorced or not I still have a life to experience, and I still have two kids to take care.
As a PhD I think I am excited to take the challenge to see how far I can go before I have no choice but to retain a lawyer.
So it take about a whole month to get the papers filed (The post office can just lose your mail and refuse to apologize even if
you spend a ton of money to insure and speed up the mail, amazing). Did not learn a lesson, still trying to serve the paper in
a friendly way, which went nowhere but to alarm her, then it really really drove me crazy to work with a stubborn and bad-tempered sheriff.
I just realize it is so hard to serve somebody legal docs when somebody intentionally refuses to take it because all it takes is to
lock self in a bathroom or a room.
But finally finally the papers get served and the clock can start ticking. It makes my day!
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